As user205512 suggests, performing that grab recursively is not possible, and as they point out, using optional(s) to go arbitrary levels down into your data getting the nodes is not feasible on anything but non-trivial sized databases.
Bnodes themselves are locally scoped, to the result set, or to the file. There's no guarantee that a BNode is you get from parsing or from a result set is the same id that is used in the database (though some database do guarantee this for query results). Furthermore, a query like "select ?s where { ?s ?p _:bnodeid1 }" is the same as "select ? where { ?s ?p ?o }" -- note that bnode is treated as a variable in that case, not as "the thing w/ the id 'bnodeid1'" This quirk of the design makes it difficult to query for bnodes, so if you are in control of the data, I'd suggest not using them. It's not hard to generate names for stuff that would otherwise be bnodes, and named resources v. bnodes will not increase overhead during querying.
That does not help you recurse down and grab data, but for that, I don't recommend doing such general queries; they don't scale well and usually return more than you want or need. I'd suggest you do more directed queries. Your original construct query will pull down the contents of the entire database, that's generally not what you want.
Lastly, while describe can be useful, there's not a standard implementation; the SPARQL spec doesn't define any particular behavior, so what it returns is left to the database vendor, and it can be different. That can make your code less portable if you plan on trying different databases with your application. If you want a specific behavior out of describe, you're best off implementing it yourself. Doing something like the concise bounded description for a resource is an easy piece of code, though you can run into some headaches around Bnodes.