I think the question was not actually answered by another responder that has been here for a while. I also think that those who come here deserve an answer. I will answer the question (see #2), but let me first clarify something.
#1 Why Not Delete?
So, first, I agree with another answer and will say that in domain terms, there is no such thing as deletion typically. I like the angle from which this article by Udi Dahan explains the point.
My explanation for being against the deletion is a bit old-style, simpler (yes, even simpler), and hopefully easier to understand. Imagine a world without (or before) computers. People did everything on paper. Imagine (I know it might be awkward) that you are dealing with a book instead of the video. A book that contains the same info as the video you are deleting. You can't delete the book, but you can "burn" it or "trash" it. It actually continues living but changes its form of existence. Similarly, your video moves from its current state to the next state, or maybe it even transforms and gives birth to the object that is its next state. Anyway, the point is, you are changing the state and not deleting it. So, it would be best if you modeled it as a state change. That was the point, although I know it could have been unclear.
#2 How to Update Other Aggregates?
Very simple, the original aggregate (the one that changes state, see above) dispatches an event that describes what happened to it. You subscribe to that event, and the event handler updates other impacted aggregates. I think this was the answer you were looking for without all the "can't delete" conversations. Sorry that I added that part again, but I wanted to clarify both points for readers.
To expand the book's example: when you trash the book, you need to update the book directory (or index paper that shows where each book is in the library), not to mention the trashed book anymore. So without computers, the one who trashed the old book would tell the other guy responsible for the directory to scratch the book from the list (read as "when the book is trashed, the directory must remove it from the list"). That is what the event accomplishes but in digital terms.