I know you want use "imread" & "CV_LOAD_IMAGE_GRAYSCALE" and convert automatically.
But this other way for load one picture and convert to gray scale:
define CV_NO_BACKWARD_COMPATIBILITY
#include <cv.h>
#include <highgui.h>
#include <math.h>
int main(){
/* load the image */
IplImage* img = cvLoadImage("yourPicture.bmp"); //jpg - bmp
/* retrieve properties */
int width = img->width;
int height = img->height;
int nchannels = img->nChannels;
int step = img->widthStep;
IplImage* img2 = cvCreateImage(cvSize(img->height, img->width),IPL_DEPTH_8U,1);
/* setup the pointer to access image data */
uchar *data = ( uchar* )img->imageData;
uchar *data2= ( uchar* )img2->imageData;
/* convert to grayscale manually */
int i, j, r, g, b, byte;
for( i = 0 ; i < height ; i++ ) {
for( j = 0 ; j < width ; j++ ) {
r = data[i*step + j*nchannels + 0];
g = data[i*step + j*nchannels + 1];
b = data[i*step + j*nchannels + 2];
byte = ( r + g + b ) / 3;
int v0=0, v1=0, v2=0;
data2[i*(img2->widthStep)+j*(img2->nChannels)+0] = byte;
data2[i*(img2->widthStep)+j*(img2->nChannels)+1] = byte;
data2[i*(img2->widthStep)+j*(img2->nChannels)+2] = byte;
}
}
cvNamedWindow("ImagenColor", 1);
cvShowImage("ImagenColor", img);
cvNamedWindow("Gray", 1);
cvShowImage("Gray", img2);
}