You really should take a look at Sequel if you're considering DataMapper, FWIW I will be migrating away from ActiveRecord to Sequel.
However if you like the opinionated Rails ideology then you shouldn't look any further than ActiveRecord for least friction.
With no disrespect to the hard work of the Rails community and developers, but after dealing with the evolution of scopes, association conditions, relations vs associations, nested attributes, record initialisation, string based ordering clauses, search strings, hashes and arel,inability to express and compose queries easily or reuse scopes effectively, validation of related model bugs, parent vs child association building weirdness, poor documentation and none of it gelling together nicely, you may too decide to move to a clearly better thought out ORM like Sequel.
Similarly you may look at the ideology of Rails (being unabashedly opinionated), and consider what might fit better if you prefer choice and a conceptually cleaner approach in a modern web framework. Rails 4 was the last hoorah for me, hello Sinatra/Padrino/Sequel, Postgres/Redis/Solr and Backbone/Marionette/Eco/Coffeescript ... my opinionated web development framework :)
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. It would be nice if something this simple was supported by Rails. * shrug * – Hoofer