Assuming this is HP-UX? What about the Ptools - do you have those installed? If so you can use "pfiles" to find the ports in use by the application:
pfiles prints information about all open file descriptors of a process.
If file descriptor corresponds to a file, then pfiles prints the fstat(2)
and fcntl(2) information.
If the file descriptor corresponds to a socket, then pfiles prints socket
related info, such as the socket type, socket family, and protocol family.
In the case of AF_INET and AF_INET6 family of sockets, information about
the peer host is also printed.
for f in $(ps -ex | awk '{print $1}'); do echo $f; pfiles $f | grep PORTNUM; done
switch PORTNUM for the port number. :) may be child pid, but gets you close enough to identify the problem app.