This is a big question, so I'm asking for a reference rather than a booklet-sized answer. I'm going through Stroustrup's Tour of C++, and it seems like the way objects are laid out is memory is fundamental to the design of many C++ features, e.g. PODs vs aggregates vs classes with virtual members.
Unfortunately, the Tour itself doesn't cover this subject in detail, and skimming the ToCs of some standard references such as C++ Primer 5ed and TCPPPL 4ed doesn't show whether or where they cover it.