I'm looking for a solution and/or the rationality behind why a Binding instance is shared within a DataTemplate. This ultimately comes down to the fact that within a DataTemplate, there's seemingly no way to force a new instance of a Binding on a DependencyProperty for each control generated. That is probably a fair and good assumption in all cases except when there are ValidationRules representing something specific about the instance of that control.
To elaborate (I can provide code, but I don't believe it's necessary), I use a DependencyPropertyDescriptor on IsEnabled to update one or more ValidationRules that belong to a TextBox.Text Binding, DatePicker.Text Binding, or a ComboBox.SelectedValue Binding, etc. The idea is that validation will be different or undesired when a control is not enabled.
Because of this, the ValidationRule's state of IsEnabled is specific to the individual control and because the ValidationRule Collection is a part of the Binding and the Binding instance is being shared - each control that ends up sharing that binding will update/override the previous IsEnabled value that was applied by the previously generated control's IsEnabled value.
IsEnabled is only one of at least two properties in the ValidationRule (another custom IsRequired DependencyProperty) that represent the state of the control to which the Binding is applied. When working outside of a DataTemplate (IE: The Binding instance is not shared), this works very well and ignores/alters the validation logic based on the state of the control. I'm not closed off to alternatives but do feel this has been (this issue aside) a very flexible and dynamic option that allows the Binding instance ValidationRule's and the control-changed state of the Rules to evolve effortlessly. This has also allowed me to avoid other obvious but much uglier options such as creating several Bindings, each representing one of the combinations of the ValidationRule's control properties and switching the whole binding out at the time the DependencyPropertyDescriptor fires. shivers
Any thoughts are MUCH appreciated!