I am trying to use MongoDB, C# and NoRM to work on some sample projects, but at this point I'm having a much harder time wrapping my head around the data model. With RDBMS's related data is no problem. In MongoDB, however, I'm having a difficult time deciding what to do with them.
Let's use StackOverflow as an example... I have no problem understanding that the majority of data on a question page should be included in one document. Title, question text, revisions, comments... all good in one document object.
Where I start to get hazy is on the question of user data like username, avatar, reputation (which changes especially often)... Do you denormalize and update thousands of document records every time there is a user change or do you somehow link the data together?
What is the most efficient way to accomplish a user relationship without causing tons of queries to happen on each page load? I noticed the DbReference<T>
type in NoRM, but haven't found a great way to use it yet. What if I have nullable optional relationships?
Thanks for your insight!